Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Birth Certificate from State of Taxes



For her future convenience, we decided to hire an attorney and get Anna a Texas birth certificate. It is allowed in Texas. The attorney is in San Antonio, so we made the event a family mini vacation over a weekend. On October 21, the Bexar (pronounced bear) County courthouse awarded us a Texas adoption decree. We will receive Anna’s birth certificate about six months later. Both the lawyer and the judge were very nice. They made our experience in the courthouse fun.

Wild Life Park and the Art Festival






Anna liked the tram ride in the wild life park and was very interested in all kinds of animals. She had no fear of anything and tried to imitate the sound of everything. Mom and Dad did not allow her to touch anything since she still likes to suck her thumb. Ben got to feed the emus, ostriches etc and really had fun in the park for Kelly’s cowgirl birthday party. We went to the Houston Art Festival on Saturday. It was a little chilly but it was an eye-opening event.

Hurricane Katrina and Rita




The days in September were very hectic. Houstonians were very busy at helping evacuees from Louisiana after Katrina made landfall in New Orleans on August 29. Our lives are certainly affected by this disaster. Besides, almost every weekend, we had birthday parties, piano lessons and baseball practices or games to go to. Unfortunately, in the morning of Wednesday, September 21, 2005, the forecasters predicted that another monster storm Rita, a Category 5 hurricane, was heading toward Houston. Roger worked very hard in over 100 degree scorching weather to board up windows in front of our house. We took all the pictures down from the walls, packed up important documents and prepared to evacuate. Wednesday afternoon around 2:00 pm, we started to drive west toward San Antonio with another family. Normally, it takes about 3.5 hours to get to San Antonio from where we live. But that day it took us about 8 hours to get only to west side of Houston. The entire trip took us 14 plus hours. Imagine driving on a toll road, mile after mile of cars bumper to bumper at 3 miles per hour without access to restaurants, bathrooms or gas stations for whole day. Anna was not a happy camper in the car. She made all kinds of facial expressions and sounds, cried, kicked and screamed until she was so exhausted she fell asleep. Friday afternoon, the entire city was like a ghost town. Although we were lucky Rita did not hit Houston, we pray for those who were affected by the hurricane. Both Ben and Anna liked to jump up and down on the air mattress we used. We had a good time in San Antonio due to Grace and Jay’s hospitality. We sincerely thank them. We drove back Saturday evening and it took us about…yah, 3.5 hours.

Thursday, September 01, 2005

Baptism and Cert of Citizenship




Sunday, August 28th, 2005, at the 11:00 am service both kids got baptized in the Friendswood United Methodist Church (http://www.friendswoodumc.com). When Rev. Charles Anderson held Anna and damped water on her head, she did not cry and even waived and smiled at the crowd! She was pretty quite until near the end of the service. Unfortunately, we did not take any photos during the beautiful baptism but we can get a DVD for the entire service of that day later.
We were so excited to open the mail from USCIS – we knew that we must have received Anna’s Certification of Citizenship in. But, we were so disappointed that they made a mistake on it and had Anna’s birth date wrong. Well, what do you expect? This is USCIS! We are not the only ones that had problems with them. They misspelled another girl’s last name from the group of seven families that traveled with us to China. Two out of seven certifications were wrong! We have to retake her picture and resend all the forms.

Meet Grandparents




Grandma and Grandpa came to town on August 25th. Anna was very happy to meet with them and loved to give Grandpa high five! During that weekend, she went to see the Ballunar Festival and happily attended big brother’s Race Car birthday party. But she is too young to get on the race track. However, she wobbled around the entire place and checked out each game machine! Flying in daddy’s hands or throwing pillows at each other with big brother are her favorite things to do.

Daycare Starts




August 15 was Anna’s first day at the JSC CCC Room 2. Before that, Daddy brought her to the daycare four times and she loved playing there. The first daycare visit was right after the Space Shuttle Discovery landed at Edwards AFB safely. Both of them were happy to get out of the house for a while! Except for some small accidents between kids in the room (Anna got bit by another baby), Anna is adapting to the routine very well. She refuses to take any foods from the baby jar and enjoys most table foods. Watching her eat a raw carrot and nibble on an ear of corn is really fun. Keeping her socks and shoes on is the biggest challenge for her now. Image that you never had socks or shoes to ware before in your life. ParentWatch enables Mommy/Daddy to view the daycare rooms through the Internet. That really helped at the beginning of kid’s school year.

The Doctor’s Visits



Aug. 1 was Anna's first doctor's visit in the States (Dr. Robert Quillin at the Children’s Clinic of Clear Lake). She got four shots - poor little princess! Otherwise she is doing fine. As of 08/01, her height was 89% but weight was only 25%. She does not look thin but the doctor said she is going to be tall and thin. We think the percentile would be different if the data was based on Asian children growth charts. Although the doctor thought her development is normal and healthy, he suggested that we visit Taxes Children's Health Center for International Adoption at Taxes Children's Hospital (TCH) to have a complete physical - just for peace of mind.

We visited Dr. Kathleen Ferrer at TCH on Aug. 4. They drew six tubes of blood from her and instructed us to take three stool samples later – BTW, that was a fun job! Dr. Ferrer was very impressed by her development but she still recommended we call the Early Childhood Intervention (ECI) for another evaluation. That visit is going to take place on Sept 6 at our home. All test results came out two/three weeks later showing that she is as healthy as a baby could be. All her immunization shots given in the orphanage were taken and we don’t need to do anything extra. We are very happy with the results and we have peace of mind now.

During Anna’s doctor visits, Daddy visited his doctor too. He was sick from his notorious nose – deviated septum. He suffered from a stuffed and/or running nose to severe headaches. We really wish modern or traditional medicine or any other technology could do something to cure this.

Big brother Ben is kind of jealous but is getting better each day. However there is still no playing with “my baby sister, she does not know anything” – although he is willing to share everything. Well, almost everything.

We really appreciate our friends and neighbors who thought of us and cooked meals for us during this hectic time of our lives while adjusting to having a fourth family member.

Thursday, July 28, 2005

Update





It has been a rough week for all of us. Jet lag was terrible for the parents and big brother but much worse for Anna. She did not want to sleep during the night. She woke up all night long and cried and cired for several nights. During the day time, no matter what we did, she could fall asleep on your shoulder, in shopping cars, in your arms, on the floor! Wednesday was the first night she and everybody else slept through the night. That was great! Mom’s company had no leave or vacation for her and she had to use “leave without pay” for part of the trip. So Daddy stays home with Anna until the new semester at Ge Ge’s daycare starts. Daddy has to do some adjusting for this new stay-at-home-dad role. Anna’s SSN and passport have been taken care of. Next Monday is her first doctor’s visit in the States. We are expecting a few makeup immunization shots.

Home




Home, sweet home! We left Shanghai 10:15 am on Thursday, 07/21 and came back on All Nippon Airlines flight #922 and changed planes in Tokyo to CA flight #6. Thanks Eliza and your brother for all the help! The plane ride was long. Mom got sick on the plane and everyone else was very tired. Our plane landed around 2:00 pm. Our friend Dr. Qian picked us up when we arrived home on July 21 and also took us to the airport on July 1. Thank you so much, Dr. Qian and family! After passing through customs and the immigration office, it was almost 4:00 in the afternoon. Anna slept in her first car seat on the way home from the airport. We finally got home around 5:00 pm. Anna had a huge smile when she got inside the house. The first thing she did was pick up the chess pieces on the coffee table.

A Week in Haimen










For the first couple of days in Grandma and Grandpa’s home, Anna shied away from them. She just wanted Mommy. As long as Mommy left the room, she started to cry. Late during the week she gradually embraced them. Everyone loved her and praised her health and beauty. Mommy only let two friends know about this trip since she knew there would not enough time with Grandma and Grandpa. Most her high school classmates did not know until too late. Even then, we still had so many family/friends gatherings, meals, talks and had fun. Anna was always the center of the attention. She loved her squeaking shoes we got for her in Guang Zhou. She loved to step on the hardwood floor and make the sound. Daddy took the whistles out when everyone started to complain the squeak sound. Whenever she sits down, she always likes to take her shoes off. This is still true today. Dad enjoyed the big electric scooter rides. Mommy got her hair done. We also took some family pictures in a photo studio. Ge Ge liked the Jiao Zhi, Grandpa’s real egg rolls and the boat ride in the park.

July 14



Our 8:00am flight was cancelled so we had to take the 10:10am flight to Shanghai. It actually was better for all of us. We didn’t have to wake up too early. The flight was smooth and friends and relatives were waiting there to pick us up. All thirteen people and the luggage fit into a big van and a car. We had a very good lunch in a very nice restaurant. Thanks Yan, the dishes you specially ordered without bones, without skin and without anything from inside an animal worked good for Roger. He overeate during that meal. Thanks everyone in Shanghai! Around three o’clock, we left Shanghai heading for Haimen where Grandma and Grandpa Chen live.